Lynn D'Avolio
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage | 801-597-2857 | lynn1@soldbylynn.com


Posted by Lynn D'Avolio on 12/11/2012

The topic of money can be difficult but for couples it is often one of the most fought about issues. It is important that couples take the time to discuss finances and set financial goals. A well thought-out plan will keep your relationship healthy and keep you both moving toward your goals. Follow these tips to help keep the lines of communication open. 1. Don't Stop Talking. Money is still a taboo topic and we often donít have a clear idea about how our partner thinks or feels when it comes to spending versus saving. Talking about your goals with your partner is a simple way to make sure youíre both on the same page when it comes to your finances. 2. Find Balance. Balance power around money. One person making all the decisions and having all the control when it comes to finances is often a recipe for disaster. Find ways for you both to be equally engaged in all money decisions. 3. Create a System. Have a clearly defined money management system that covers everything from who handles the mail to who sends out the checks. Without a well thought-out plan in place, itís more likely that things won't fall through the cracks. 4. Immediately Address Problems. When problems arise, address them immediately (no secrets allowed). Avoiding the issue only makes it more toxic and drives a wedge in the relationship. 5. Have Annual Checkups. Schedule an annual money checkup. Things change and just like our physical health, money management needs an annual checkup to keep it healthy and relevant. Set aside time to sit down with each other and evaluate whatís working, what needs to be fixed and address any questions or concerns that either of you may have.